how to be a good girlfriend :)

how to be a good girlfriend? whoah. nawiwrduhan ako sa sarili ko. baket ko kaya naisipan i first topic to? kasi siguro alam ko sa sarili kong hindi ako mabuting girlfriend. so i need to take notes of how to and at the same time share it with you. hha! (may ganun?)

•  take it slow. this is really necessary kasi if you dont take things slow baka kaagad naman mawala sayo yung partner mo. masakit yun. for example, know him better habang nagcocourt sya. hindi yung kayo na, e nangingilala ka parin. (awts.) sabi nga nila diba, we shouldn’t let our heart over rule ourself, kasi kahit anong gawin mo, magmamadali at magmamadali siya. like yung pagiisip natin, we shouldn’t let it over rule us also. dapat fair. and decide things pag kalmado ka and don’t decide at the height of your emotion. kasi studies show na it will 80% fail. (gawa gawa ko lang yun) and kung magaaway kayo, TAKE IT SLOW. wag yung kaagad break. tapos ilang hours lang kayo ulit? ano yun hobby nyo? talk about it for several times and think about it for many times. kung d na tlaga pwede. edi wala na. and one more thing, couples nowadays are so agressive. yung parang wala ng bukas. pero the most important thing is wag nyong isuko ang bataan ok? kasi super duper sufferings ang kapalit ng unplanned na yun.

• be honest. (awts ulit) this is the most important thing na kailangan natin para magwork yung relationship ntin with our partner. kasi in the end malalaman at malalaman din yang kasinungalingan mo. for example, don’t tell your boyfriend that you are home when the truth is you’re with your friends hanging out and at the same time flirting. di naman ksi natin maalis yung palalandi e, lalo na kung yummy yung guy. hha. kung may nagawa kang kaslanan wag mo ng dagdagan. after all, there’s no point in lying. just lower your pride and apologize.

• tell him what you feel. kung gaano tayo kaclose sa mga friends natin, dapat ganun din tayo sa mga partners natin. we should always let them know kung ano gusto natin, ayaw natin, and opinions natin sa kahit anong bagay. like what we do with our friends. don’t be scared on vocing what you really want and feel, you may argue with it, but eventually you will also be okay. we can be humble baut outspoken at the same time.

• let him live his life. dont over rule him. remember you are just his girlfriend. at pag nasakal yan, iiwan at iiwan ka niya without second thought. let him do whatever he wants, provided dapat alam di nya yung limitations niya. dapat niyang alalahanin na may girlfriend din siya. give him some space. and dont be selfish, he also needs a time for himself.

• dont be annoying. stop acting childish and possessive. minsan kasi talagang nateturn off yung guy s mga partners nilang ganyan. wag kang text ng text kung di namn ganon kaimportante. wag kang praning kung di siya magtext syo. duh. baka wla siyang load or tulog sya.

• jealousy. dont intentionally make him jelous. or kahit yung pabiro lang baka it will lead you to heart break. wag ka din magselos ng bonggang bongga kasi maiinis lalo yung partner mo nun. ahhh basta wag masyadong selosa!

• appreciate him always. be thankful of the things he is doing for you. always tell him how greatful you are to have him. compliment him always. kahit lalaki mga yan, gustong gusto parin nilang nasasabihan ng magaganda about sakanila.

thats ol for today. my brain isn’t working anymore and i am so sleepy.

goodnight. sana natulungan ko kayo.

There are no rules in having a perfect relationship. remember nothing is perfect. we just have to know how to stick with it and know how to make it last.